Maharishi University of Management | May 24, 2014
The decisions we make in this moment are based in either love or fear. So many of us choose our path out of fear disguised as practicality. What we really want seems impossibly out of reach and ridiculous to expect so we never ask the universe for it.
Thank you Bevan, thank you all!
I brought one of my paintings to show you today. Hope you guys are gonna be able see it okay. Itís not one of my bigger pieces. You might wanna move down front ó to get a good look at it. (kidding)
Faculty, Parents, Friends, Dignitaries... Graduating Class of 2014, and all the dead baseball players coming out of the corn to be with us today. (laughter) After the harvest thereís no place to hide ó the fields are empty ó there is no cover there! (laughter)
I am here to plant a seed that will inspire you to move forward in life with enthusiastic hearts and a clear sense of wholeness. The question is, will that seed have a chance to take root, or will I be sued by Monsanto and forced to use their seed, which may not be totally ďAyurvedic.Ē (laughter)
Excuse me if I seem a little low energy tonight ó today ó whatever this is. I slept with my head to the North last night. (laughter) Oh man! Oh man! You know how that is, right kids? Woke up right in the middle of Pitta and couldnít get back to sleep till Vata rolled around, but I didnít freak out. I used that time to eat a large meal and connect with someone special on Tinder. (laughter)
Life doesnít happen to you, it happens for you. How do I know this? I donít, but Iím making sound, and thatís the important thing. Thatís what Iím here to do. Sometimes, I think thatís one of the only things that are important. Just letting each other know weíre here, reminding each other that we are part of a larger self. I used to think Jim Carrey is all that I was...
Just a flickering light
A dancing shadow
The great nothing masquerading as something you can name
Dwelling in forts and castles made of witches Ė wishes! Sorry, a Freudian slip there
Seeking shelter in caves and foxholes, dug out hastily
An archer searching for his target in the mirror
Begging to be enslaved
Pleading for my chains
Blinded by longing and tripping over paradise Ė can I get an ďAmenĒ?! (applause)
You didnít think I could be serious did yaí? I don't think you understand who you're dealing with! I have no limits! I cannot be contained because Iím the container. You canít contain the container, man! You canít contain the container! (laughter)
I used to believe that who I was ended at the edge of my skin, that I had been given this little vehicle called a body from which to experience creation, and though I couldnít have asked for a sportier model, (laughter) it was after all a loaner and would have to be returned. Then, I learned that everything outside the vehicle was a part of me, too, and now I drive a convertible. Top down wind in my hair! (laughter)
I am elated and truly, truly, truly excited to be present and fully connected to you at this important moment in your journey. I hope youíre ready to open the roof and take it all in?! (audience doesnít react) Okay, four more years then! (laughter)
I want to thank the Trustees, Administrators and Faculty of MUM for creating an institution worthy of Maharishiís ideals of education. A place that teaches the knowledge and experience necessary to be productive in life, as well as enabling the students, through Transcendental Meditation and ancient Vedic knowledge to slack off twice a day for an hour and a half!! (laughter) ó donít think youíre fooling me!!! ó (applause) but, I guess it has some benefits. It does allow you to separate who you truly are and whatís real, from the stories that run through your head.
You have given them the ability to walk behind the mindís elaborate set decoration, and to see that there is a huge difference between a dog that is going to eat you in your mind and an actual dog thatís going to eat you. (laughter) That may sound like no big deal, but many never learn that distinction and spend a great deal of their lives living in fight or flight response.
Iíd like to acknowledge all you wonderful parents ó way to go for the fantastic job youíve done ó for your tireless dedication, your love, your support, and most of all, for the attention youíve paid to your children. I have a saying, ďBeware the unloved,Ē because they will eventually hurt themselves... or me! (laughter)
But when I look at this group here today, I feel really safe! I do! Iím just going to say it ó my room is not locked! My room is not locked! (laughter) No doubt some of you will turn out to be crooks! But white-collar stuff ó Wall St. yaí know, that type of thing ó crimes committed by people with self-esteem! Stuff a parent can still be proud of in a weird way. (laughter)
And to the graduating class of 2017 ó minus 3! You didn't let me finish! (laughter) ó Congratulations! (applause) Yes, give yourselves a round of applause, please. You are the vanguard of knowledge and consciousness; a new wave in a vast ocean of possibilities. On the other side of that door, there is a world starving for new leadership, new ideas.
Iíve been out there for 30 years! Sheís a wild cat! (laughter) Oh, sheíll rub up against your leg and purr until you pick her up and start pettiní her, and out of nowhere sheíll swat you in the face. Sure itís rough sometimes but thatís OK, Ďcause theyíve got soft serve ice cream with sprinkles! (laughter) I guess thatís what Iím really here to say; sometimes itís okay to eat your feelings! (laughter)
Fear is going to be a player in your life, but you get to decide how much. You can spend your whole life imagining ghosts, worrying about your pathway to the future, but all there will ever be is whatís happening here, and the decisions we make in this moment, which are based in either love or fear.
So many of us choose our path out of fear disguised as practicality. What we really want seems impossibly out of reach and ridiculous to expect, so we never dare to ask the universe for it. Iím saying, Iím the proof that you can ask the universe for it ó please! (applause) And if it doesn't happen for you right away, itís only because the universe is so busy fulfilling my order. Itís party size! (laughter)
My father could have been a great comedian, but he didnít believe that was possible for him, and so he made a conservative choice. Instead, he got a safe job as an accountant, and when I was 12 years old, he was let go from that safe job and our family had to do whatever we could to survive.
I learned many great lessons from my father, not the least of which was that you can fail at what you donít want, so you might as well take a chance on doing what you love. (applause)
Thatís not the only thing he taught me though: I watched the affect my fatherís love and humor had on the world around me, and I thought, ďThatís something to do, thatís something worth my time.Ē
It wasnít long before I started acting up. People would come over to my house and they would be greeted by a 7 yr old throwing himself down a large flight of stairs. (laughter) They would say, ďWhat happened?Ē And I would say, ďI don't know ó letís check the replay.Ē And I would go back to the top of the stairs and come back down in slow motion. (Jim reenacts coming down the stairs in slow-mo) It was a very strange household. (laughter)
My father used to brag that I wasnít a ham ó I was the whole pig. And he treated my talent as if it was his second chance. When I was about 28, after a decade as a professional comedian, I realized one night in LA that the purpose of my life had always been to free people from concern, like my dad. When I realized this, I dubbed my new devotion, ďThe Church of Freedom From ConcernĒ ó ďThe Church of FFCĒó and I dedicated myself to that ministry.
Whatís yours? How will you serve the world? What do they need that your talent can provide? Thatís all you have to figure out. As someone who has done what you are about to go do, I can tell you from experience, the effect you have on others is the most valuable currency there is. (applause)
Everything you gain in life will rot and fall apart, and all that will be left of you is what was in your heart. My choosing to free people from concern got me to the top of a mountain. Look where I am ó look what I get to do! Everywhere I go Ė and Iím going to get emotional because when I tap into this, it really is extraordinary to me ó I did something that makes people present their best selves to me wherever I go. (applause) I am at the top of the mountain and the only one I hadnít freed was myself and thatís when my search for identity deepened.
I wondered who Iíd be without my fame. Who would I be if I said things that people didnít want to hear, or if I defied their expectations of me? What if I showed up to the party without my Mardi Gras mask and I refused to flash my breasts for a handful of beads? (laughter) Iíll give you a moment to wipe that image out of your mind. (laughter)
But you guys are way ahead of the game. You already know who you are and that peace, that peace that weíre after, lies somewhere beyond personality, beyond the perception of others, beyond invention and disguise, even beyond effort itself. You can join the game, fight the wars, play with form all you want, but to find real peace, you have to let the armor fall. Your need for acceptance can make you invisible in this world. Donít let anything stand in the way of the light that shines through this form. Risk being seen in all of your glory. (A sheet drops and reveals Jimís painting. Applause.)
(Re: the painting) Itís not big enough! (kidding) This painting is big for a reason. This painting is called ďHigh Visibility.Ē (laughter) Itís about picking up the light and daring to be seen. Hereís the tricky part. Everyone is attracted to the light. The party host up in the corner (refers to painting) who thinks unconsciousness is bliss and is always offering a drink from the bottles that empty you; Misery, below her, who despises the light ó canít stand when youíre doing well ó and wishes you nothing but the worst; The Queen of Diamonds who needs a King to build her house of cards; And the Hollow One, who clings to your leg and begs, ďPlease donít leave me behind for I have abandoned myself.Ē
Even those who are closest to you and most in love with you; the people you love most in the world can find clarity confronting at times. This painting took me thousands of hours to complete and ó (applause) thank you ó yes, thousands of hours that Iíll never get back, Iíll never get them back (kidding) ó I worked on this for so long, for weeks and weeks, like a mad man alone on a scaffolding ó and when I was finished one of my friends said, ďThis would be a cool black light painting.Ē (laughter)
So I started over. (All the lights go off in the Dome and the painting is showered with black light.) Whooooo! Welcome to Burning Man! (applause) Some pretty crazy characters right? Better up there than in here. (points to head) Painting is one of the ways I free myself from concern, a way to stop the world through total mental, spiritual and physical involvement.
But even with that, comes a feeling of divine dissatisfaction. Because ultimately, weíre not the avatars we create. Weíre not the pictures on the film stock. We are the light that shines through it. All else is just smoke and mirrors. Distracting, but not truly compelling.
Iíve often said that I wished people could realize all their dreams of wealth and fame so they could see that itís not where youíll find your sense of completion. Like many of you, I was concerned about going out in the world and doing something bigger than myself, until someone smarter than myself made me realize that there is nothing bigger than myself! (laughter)
My soul is not contained within the limits of my body. My body is contained within the limitlessness of my soul ó one unified field of nothing dancing for no particular reason, except maybe to comfort and entertain itself. (applause) As that shift happens in you, you wonít be feeling the world youíll be felt by it ó you will be embraced by it. Now, Iím always at the beginning. I have a reset button called presence and I ride that button constantly.
Once that button is functional in your life, thereís no story the mind could create that will be as compelling. The imagination is always manufacturing scenarios ó both good and bad ó and the ego tries to keep you trapped in the multiplex of the mind. Our eyes are not only viewers, but also projectors that are running a second story over the picture we see in front of us all the time. Fear is writing that script and the working title is, ĎIíll never be enough.í
You look at a person like me and say, (kidding) ďHow could we ever hope to reach those kinds of heights, Jim? How can I make a painting that's too big for any reasonable home? How do you fly so high without a special breathing apparatus?Ē (laughter)
This is the voice of your ego. If you listen to it, there will always be someone who seems to be doing better than you. No matter what you gain, ego will not let you rest. It will tell you that you cannot stop until youíve left an indelible mark on the earth, until youíve achieved immortality. How tricky is the ego that it would tempt us with the promise of something we already possess.
So I just want you to relaxóthatís my jobórelax and dream up a good life! (applause) I had a substitute teacher from Ireland in the second grade that told my class during Morning Prayer that when she wants something, anything at all, she prays for it, and promises something in return and she always gets it. Iím sitting at the back of the classroom, thinking that my family canít afford a bike, so I went home and I prayed for one, and promised I would recite the rosary every night in exchange. Broke itóbroke that promise. (laughter)
Two weeks later, I got home from school to find a brand new mustang bike with a banana seat and easy rider handlebars ó from fool to cool! My family informed me that I had won the bike in a raffle that a friend of mine had entered my name in, without my knowledge. That type of thing has been happening ever since, and as far as I can tell, itís just about letting the universe know what you want and working toward it while letting go of how it might come to pass. (applause)
Your job is not to figure out how itís going to happen for you, but to open the door in your head and when the doors open in real life, just walk through it. Donít worry if you miss your cue. There will always be another door opening. They keep opening.
And when I say, ďlife doesnít happen to you, it happens for you.Ē I really donít know if thatís true. Iím just making a conscious choice to perceive challenges as something beneficial so that I can deal with them in the most productive way. Youíll come up with your own style, thatís part of the fun!
Oh, and why not take a chance on faith as well? Take a chance on faith ó not religion, but faith. Not hope, but faith. I donít believe in hope. Hope is a beggar. Hope walks through the fire. Faith leaps over it.
You are ready and able to do beautiful things in this world and after you walk through those doors today, you will only ever have two choices: love or fear. Choose love, and donít ever let fear turn you against your playful heart.
Thank you. Jai Guru Dev. Iím so honored. Thank you.
Posted on: 07/29/14
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